A few nights ago, Michael made me waffles for dinner, and he was thoughtful enough to make one into the shape of Ohio. Awwww.
Ok, fine, so it was just chance that it looked so much like our great state, but still, pretty awesome.
This was about two weeks before my most recent birthday in August. We knew that we were going to be apart for my actual birthday, since I was going to be starting school in Ohio and Michael was going to be finishing in Provo, so Michael wanted to do something special ahead of time. A few days before the big date, I got a handmade card in the mail from him, formally inviting me to this date. Adorable.
The actual activities of the night were a surprise, but when I got to his apartment, I saw that all his roommates had taken off, and the table was set with candles and fancy china he had borrowed just for the night, and there were roses on the table. We had a delicious dinner of a homemade vegetable pasta, stuffed grape leaves (they’re one of my favorite foods but it’s almost impossible to find good ones in Utah!), and sparkling juice. And we toasted to us and clinked glasses and said mushy things.
After that romantic dinner, he whisked me away in the car to a still-secret location for the rest of our date. And as we wound our way up Provo Canyon, past gorgeous summer scenery, I started to figure out where we were going. About a month and a half before this particular night, I had mentioned that the Sound of Music was my probably my second-favorite musical ever. And that weekend, there was an outdoor performance of it in Park City! The scenery was amazing—being nestled in the mountains was the perfect, perfect setting for everything. We laid out a blanket and snuggled up together and watched a great performance.
After the show, when it was dark, we took a long-cut back to the car (they had a shuttle bus since the parking lot was far away, but it was warm and the sky was full of stars…) and it was the most romantic thing ever. I thought the date was over at that point, but then he told me he had one last surprise for me—a Dairy Queen ice cream cake, my favorite food EVER! Then we fell asleep cuddling on the couch (don’t worry, I woke up in time to get home before the Honor Code fairies caught me), and it was just the most perfect date. So well-planned and romantic! Lovey lovey love :)

Sighs all around.If Personhood USA doesn't have popular support even among conservatives, at least they have high profile politicians willing to pay them lip service. The degree of disconnect between what politicians say they believe and what voters actually want has reached nearly comical levels. In the Mississippi gubernatorial race, both the defeated Democrat Johnny Dupree and the victorious Republican Phil Bryant publicly supported the Personhood amendment. As Salon's Irin Carmon points out, it was difficult to find more than a handful of public officials willing to publicly declare that they were opposed to personhood in the state. Out of step support for the measure doesn't stop there, though; GOP Presidential field (with the exception of poor forgotten Jon Huntsman) has reached a general consensus that personhood is a dandy idea. Even Mitt Romney, who this side of the airing of the last episode of The Wonder Years was speaking out in favor of abortion rights, has said he would sign personhood legislation into law as the country's executive.
Not to sound like a campaign ad, but if candidates of a major party feel compelled to align themselves with an ideology that is too extreme for even America's most conservative state, something is amiss.
For now, at least, let's hope politicians have gotten the hint that people simply aren't interested in inviting the government any further into our reproductive organs. Let's enjoy the rueful sense of victory that comes from being declared more important than a fetus by ballot initiative. And let's ponder the irony of an organization that believes that life begins at the moment of conception, yet doesn't believe that the game ends after they've clearly lost.